What is toxic people?

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Even if you don’t now, at some point in your life you’re bound to have come across a person who fits the description. Dealing with such an individual can be difficult and draining, to say the least. In fact, it may challenge what you know about yourself and push you to the limits.

  1. Toxic people are manipulative. Their modus operandi is to get people to do what they want them to do. It’s all about them. They use other people to accomplish whatever their goal happens to be. Forget what you want; this is not about equality in a relationship—far from it.
  2. They are judgmental. Keep your eyes and ears open for criticism—about you, what you’ve done, and what you didn’t do. It’s never about them, and they will lie if it serves them.
  3. They take no responsibility for their own feelings. Rather, their feelings are projected onto you. If you try to point this out to them, they will likely vehemently defend their perspective, and take no responsibility for almost anything they do.
  4. They don’t apologize. They don’t see any reason to, because things are always someone else’s fault. In many instances, although they try to orchestrate relationships to serve their own ends, they try to gain sympathy and attention by claiming “victim” status.
  5. They are inconsistent. It’s hard to know who you’re with at any given time because they are often not the same person. They may change their perspective, attitude, and behavior depending on what they feel they need to accomplish or what they want to have happen. (And they know how to be kind when they want something from you.
  6. They make you prove yourself to them. Toxic people make you choose them over someone else, or something they want over something you want. Often, this turns into a “divide and conquer” dynamic in which the only choice is them, even to the point of requiring you to cut off other meaningful relationships to satisfy them.
  7. They make you defend yourself. They have difficulty staying on point about certain issues, probably because they’re not interested in your point of view or trying to reach an amicable conclusion. Remember, they are supreme manipulators: Their tactics may include being vague and arbitrary, as well as diverting the focus of the discussion to how you’re discussing an issue—your tone, your words, etc. They focus on problems, not solutions.
  8. They are not caring, supportive, or interested in what’s important to you. In fact, the good things that happen to you move the attention away from them and thwart them from focusing on their own goals. Beware of people who find fault with you and make you wrong. Loyalty is foreign to them.

Toxic people often make you want to fix them and their problems. They want you to feel sorry for them, and responsible for what happens to them. Yet their problems are never really solved, for once you’ve helped them with one crisis, there’s inevitably another one. What they really want is your ongoing sympathy and support, and they will create one drama after another in order to get it. “Fixing” and “saving” them never works, especially since you probably care more about what happens to them than they do.

Toxic people are draining; encounters leave you emotionally wiped out. Time with them is about taking care of their business, which will leave you feeling frustrated and unfulfilled, if not angry. Don’t allow yourself to become depleted as a result of giving and giving and getting nothing in return. At first, you may feel for them and their plight but once you observe that every interaction is negatively charged you may want to limit your contact with them, or maybe even cut ties. Your time and energy are essential for your own life. Don’t be overly willing to give them away.

And beware especially the narcissistic toxic person. Their modus operandi includes gaining total control of a situation, and that means of you, too. They will demand your undivided attention and attempt to convince you that you need to join their camp. To their way of thinking they know better than you. They’re right; you’re wrong. And you need to do what they say. This kind of toxic person will think nothing of invading your space and may try to isolate you from others you are close to.

Relationships are complex and it may not be easy to deal with toxic people until you have learned from previous interactions. I understand that many relationships, especially familial ones, are more difficult because it’s not so easy to close the door and say goodbye. But the bottom line is that if you feel bad about yourself as a result of a relationship with another person, it’s time to sit down and assess the issue. They may be unlikely to change, but you can. Weigh the pros (if there are any) and the cons, make a decision to limit your time with this person or end the relationship—and don’t look back.

How to make a heat sensor at home?

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In this section, I will tell you how to measure values such as heat and humidity. Basically, we have some requirements.

Arduino Uno or make connections to the device as shown in the figure. Then open the Arduino IDE and compile the project in the Arduino IDE and transfer it to the device using the following codes.

#include <dht11.h>
int DHT11_pin=2;
dht11 DHT11_sensor;

void setup() {
  // put your setup code here, to run once:
  Serial.begin(9600);
}

void loop() {
  // put your main code here, to run repeatedly:
  int chk = DHT11_sensor.read(DHT11_pin);
  

  int data=Serial.read();

  if(data=='1')
  {
    Serial.println((float)DHT11_sensor.humidity, 2);
  }
  else if(data=='2')
  {
    Serial.println((float)DHT11_sensor.temperature, 2);
  }
  else if(data=='3')
  {
    Serial.println(DHT11_sensor.dewPoint(), 2);
  }
}

When you enter “1” value from the serial port screen and enter, it will give the humidity value. If you type 2 through the serial port screen, it will give the temperature. We used dewPoint function as a third option. You can improve too. The values you receive are a 3. in the batch application, you can start using it by connecting to the serial port screen.

We wrote a program in Turkish. Name of the program: Temperature Sensor.

This program is a simple program that automatically reads values through Arduino Uno. Values async as realtime as Form1.in our cs file, we read from the serial port and print live to the screen.

using System;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.ComponentModel;
using System.Data;
using System.Drawing;
using System.Linq;
using System.Text;
using System.Threading.Tasks;
using System.Windows.Forms;
using System.IO.Ports;
using System.Threading;
using System.Globalization;

namespace HararetSensoru
{
    public partial class Form1 : Form
    {
        SerialPort sp;
        float nem;
        float sicaklik;
        float cig;
        public Form1()
        {
            InitializeComponent();
        }

        private void Form1_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            string[] ports = SerialPort.GetPortNames();

            foreach(string port in ports)
            {
                listBox1.Items.Add(port);
            }
        }

        private void button1_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            button1.Enabled = false;

            if (listBox1.SelectedItem != null)
            {
                sp = new SerialPort(listBox1.SelectedItem.ToString(), 9600, Parity.None, 8, StopBits.One);
                sp.Open();

                ReadValues();
            }
            else
            {
                button1.Enabled = true;
                MessageBox.Show("Port seçtin mi?", "ROM port hatası", MessageBoxButtons.OK, MessageBoxIcon.Exclamation);
            }

        }

        private async void ReadValues()
        {
            await Task.Run(() =>
            {
                while (true)
                {
                    SetStatus("Okunuyor...");
                    sp.Write("1");
                    nem = (float)Math.Round(float.Parse(sp.ReadLine(), CultureInfo.InvariantCulture.NumberFormat));
                    ChangeLabel1Text(nem.ToString()+" %");
                    ChangeProgressBar1((int)(nem));

                    sp.Write("2");
                    sicaklik = (float)Math.Round(float.Parse(sp.ReadLine(), CultureInfo.InvariantCulture.NumberFormat));
                    ChangeLabel2Text(sicaklik.ToString()+" 'C");
                    ChangeProgressBar2((int)(sicaklik));

                    sp.Write("3");
                    cig = (float)Math.Round(float.Parse(sp.ReadLine(), CultureInfo.InvariantCulture.NumberFormat));
                    ChangeLabel3Text(cig.ToString()+" %");
                    ChangeProgressBar3((int)(cig));
                    SetStatus("Okundu.");

                    System.Threading.Thread.Sleep(1000); // time to sleep thread
                }
            });
        }

        private void ChangeLabel1Text(string value)
        {
            if (label1.InvokeRequired)
            {
                label1.Invoke(new Action<string>(ChangeLabel1Text), value);
                return;
            }
            label1.Text = value;
        }


        private void ChangeLabel2Text(string value)
        {
            if (label2.InvokeRequired)
            {
                label2.Invoke(new Action<string>(ChangeLabel2Text), value);
                return;
            }
            label2.Text = value;
        }

        private void ChangeLabel3Text(string value)
        {
            if (label3.InvokeRequired)
            {
                label3.Invoke(new Action<string>(ChangeLabel3Text), value);
                return;
            }
            label3.Text = value;
        }

        private void ChangeProgressBar1(int value)
        {
            if (progressBar1.InvokeRequired)
            {
                progressBar1.Invoke(new Action<int>(ChangeProgressBar1), value);
                return;
            }
            if(value > 100)
            {
                value = 100 / (value / 100);
            }
            progressBar1.Value = value;
        }

        private void ChangeProgressBar2(int value)
        {
            if (progressBar2.InvokeRequired)
            {
                progressBar2.Invoke(new Action<int>(ChangeProgressBar2), value);
                return;
            }
            if (value > 100)
            {
                value = 100 / (value / 100);
            }
            progressBar2.Value = value;
        }

        private void ChangeProgressBar3(int value)
        {
            if (progressBar3.InvokeRequired)
            {
                progressBar3.Invoke(new Action<int>(ChangeProgressBar3), value);
                return;
            }
            if (value > 100)
            {
                value = 100 / (value / 100);
            }
            progressBar3.Value = value;
        }

        private void SetStatus(string value)
        {
            toolStripStatusLabel1.Text = value;
        }


        .....
    }
}

As you can see, the Program simply lists serial ports, reads the selected ROM, sends 1,2,3 values to the device, measures the values, and prints them on the screen.

You can download the project files below.

hararetsensoru-masterDownload

Good improvements.

Developer Rights Manifesto

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I’m publishing a developer rights manifesto. They can read and support this manifesto for the purpose of not using developers as slaves.

These developer rights cover the rights of all software or hardware developers. These rights include clauses that cover the process of compliance between the employer and the employer. Each employee who accepts these rights is considered a member of this association and is obliged to comply with the compliance process. The purpose of these rights is to address common clauses that protect the employer and the worker doing the work. In the event of a problem with these articles, no matter what the circumstances, the members of the association may change unanimously. All developers who accept this manifesto accept the obligations under which the rights are granted.

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Manifesto Part 1: Refusing to live with the judgment of the mind.

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Everyone prefers a poor quality life today. Almost everyone is living the same style of life like each other’s clone. We accept the impositions brought by the system. We are all born, sent to school by force and receive education. Afterwards, we drift into a working life and run after jobs that are not related to us from morning to evening. In this process, we go to the military, we don’t actually have to, but once the system has imposed on us, we have to do it. We continue to do various jobs and live the lives that others have imposed on us.

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Onix OS First Version Released (1.0)

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After two years of daily updates and studies, we announce the first version. This version is a stable version. After a long period of work and losses, we have prepared a clean version by updating a lot of things, eliminating ambivalence and conflict. This version is good for all of us.

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